So today I found myself thinking about my regular shopping habits and my relentless affection for that colorful silk blouse, the perfect white tee or the statement necklace that screams edgy but yet mixed with a classic look says polished. I keep questioning is my "like" and "admiration" with fashion a negative thing? I mean Clay is a fan of triathlons, running, hunting, Alabama and Florida State football. Am I not allowed to adore over the latest steal at Zara or a one-hit wonder designer featured on shopbop?! Is my interest in the latest trends or fashionably put-together looks keeping me from my priorities in life? For me clothing and putting an outfit together is simply a form of expressing my creativity...literally! Has it consumed me? Do I put it before the Lord, my husband, my family, my job? Fortunately, I can't see any of these instances where the shoes I'm wearing or the dress I have on have ever made a difference in my relationships or performance and interactions at church, home or my office.
There are so many influential and successful women who have made an impact on the fashion industry and businesses simply by their ability and talents to piece together glamourous looks and styles. Do we say their victims of consumerism or that they're materialistic?
So where does this leave me? a little confused.
As followers of Christ are we to ignore what we're wearing and rock the 10 year old outdated look?
For me personally, I think I'm doing the Lord an injustice if I don't get dressed for the day and do my best to look my best. We are the Lord's ambassadors and the way we present ourselves both through our actions, words and appearance should speak highly of our father. Now I don't think this means racking up debt or being attached to labels, but I do think it means being of noble character and being a good reflection as daughter's of Christ.
Bottom line....it's all about balance and finding a solid ground.
I found these 3 questions which have helped clear up some fuzziness and have put me in check!
Am I spending more time shopping than serving God?
Does shopping time take priority over my family time?
Am I spending more money on clothes than what I’m giving to God’s work?
These questions can apply to other areas of consumption in our lives and are not limited to just clothing.
So after these 20 days do I think I'll still ooo and ahhhh over my favorite fashion blogs and trendsetters or enjoy piecing together new looks with recycled and vintage looks making them new works of art......absolutely! The real question is when 7 is long past me will I take the time to focus on my relationship with God more often, perhaps daily on HOW I'm spending my money and time and WHETHER OR NOT it's helping to build the KINGDOM and glorify God.
Just sayin'.....I'm pretty sure God is down with faux fur vests and sequins.....:)
..................as long as you rock it honoring HIM, didn't dent your credit store to get it, gave ten fold in return to his kingdom (continually repeat) and gave thanks for the gifts you had to buy it.
Day 4 Denim Daze
"Is that a dress around your neck?!" - coworker
*went with my tan flats instead of sandals
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